When hearing loss gets in the way of communication
Pastor Collins knew he was at risk for hearing difficulties: During his physical for seminary school, a physician diagnosed a small degree of hearing loss in his left ear.
When he and his wife positioned their chairs next to each other in their living room, he made sure to sit with his right ear facing her so he’d be sure to hear what she was saying. But over time, he began not to notice when she would strike up a conversation. She began to think he was ignoring her. “She told me I was using my selective hearing again, but the truth was, I couldn’t hear her,” he says.
In September 2020, after experiencing an ear infection for about a month and a half, Pastor Collins made an appointment with an ear, nose and throat specialist at Holston Medical Group in Kingsport, Tenn., to uncover the cause of these infections. HMG tested Pastor Collins’ hearing and discovered significant hearing loss not in his left ear, but his right.
“I could only hear half of the sounds with my right ear,” he says. “I had no idea my hearing was that bad. What really surprised me is that it happened so slowly. I work with churches in Cumberland Gap, Va.; I’m the president of the Appalachian School of Theology; I serve at our Baptist state convention; and I communicate with church members from international partnerships. It seemed unfathomable that I was able to do these things with just 50% of my hearing in one ear.”
In my work as an audiologist, I often see scenarios such as this. The good news: They are often easy to treat. In Pastor Collins’ case, we fit him with hearing aids and let him try it out at home for a couple of weeks to see the difference it could make.
“It was an ‘Aha!’ moment for me,” Pastor Collins recalls. “The second Briana put those hearing aids in, I could hear so clearly! It was such a tremendous difference.
“Before I was fitted with hearing aids, I would receive questions from every angle of the room in the sanctuary during worship and meetings, and I just could not hear them. Over time, I started to read lips to understand what people were saying—and when the pandemic required us to wear masks, I really struggled to communicate. Now, I don’t have to compensate for hearing difficulties anymore. I can hear so clearly now, and the hearing aids are barely noticeable.”